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Perfect Love - Loving Without Fear or Expectation...Sometimes we hate what we used to love. We think that which we love is unworthy of our love because it has let us down greatly in some way or another. We feel like withdrawing all our love and give it to somewhere else that is more worthy to receive. It might be true that we’re in love with the wrong person, but it could also be true that we ourselves are not yet right to love that person. The negative situation we experience is meant to help us discover ourselves and what loving unconditionally really means.
Hate is an emotion that is meant to be used as an aggressive defense against any form of evil. It is a destructive force against anything that is destructive towards you. When you feel hate or anger, it just means that someone is doing something that hurts you. It is a form of self love that seeks to protect you and severe anything that isn’t beneficial for you. There is nothing wrong with the way you feel because your emotions serve as a feedback and motivating force to move towards that which is good in life.
It is when you understand what your emotions are telling you, and the reason why you feel that way, that enables you to truly resolve everything in your inner world. The reason why you feel hate and anger is because the person is doing something that hurts you. Your love for yourself repels against such an act. You feel unacknowledged, unappreciated or somehow mistreated in one way or another by the other person. Therefore you seek to redress the wrong or undeserved suffering caused by that person.
The reason why you feel unappreciated is because you need appreciation from that person. You need something that is lacking.
You feel mistreated because you require that person to treat you in a certain way. It is when that person isn’t being or doing what you expect, that you feel disappointed in loving him or her. You wonder why should you continue being so good and nice to that person when you are being treated so unfairly in return. What you may not realize is how conditional your love for that person really is.
But a true friendship does not have any suppositions or expectations of what the friendship should be like. True friendship can exist even when the parties are not normal friends.
What happens when the relationship or friendship with the person has ended in the normal sense? There is no longer an expectation or need for that person to give you acknowledgment, appreciation or anything for that matter. The same goes for you as well. You no longer need to give that person anything at all. But now you are in a space where if you feel love, appreciation and kindness for that person, you can still give it if you wish. You can now give out of a heart that is totally free and unconditional.
When you feel true love for another, the love you have is not your own, but it is God expressing through you.
Love yourself for all that you are because you are worth it. From the place of complete self love and self acceptance, you are able to love another with an unconditional heart. Because you do not need anything back. Therefore you can’t be hurt at all. You can love without fear. Remember the saying, “Work like you don’t need the money, dance like no one’s watching and love like you’ve never been hurt before”. Love like you’ve never been hurt before. It is the pure, fearless and unconditional giving of yourself.
Originally from Michigan....Health Spa Mgmt training....moved to Florida....Managed a Health Spa....Got my Criminal Justice degree there....married my wife , Patti there....moved to Arizona....bought my wife a Beauty Salon.....explored the Superstition Mountains for a couple of years and got my second degree in Business Adm. Worked in a Paper Mill....with a dream of building an Assisted Living home.....my mom had four in Michigan and my uncles and aunts had them as well.....I eventually built mine when everything fell into place at once....left the Paper Mill when the home needed more attention.....it grew into a Center....found after a couple of years of research on my lineage the I had progenitors that were of the "Essene Brotherhood in White," that were healers, had berthing caves in Jerusalem, took care of the elderly.....so we are just continuing what was done before; I find that incredible and the work spiritually uplifting. My linage includes Pharaohs, Rama Theo's, Zodok Priesthood holders, Kings and Queens, including Queen Vivian II (Druid Queen) and the Fisher Kings.......and all I got was this wrinkled T-shirt.